人生的另一个阶段

刚刚读了一位ｈｏｎｅｙ的ｂｌｏｇ。。不过不是关于偶像峰少的。。。
而是关于她的好姐妹和一个小生命的来临
那就令我想起我的一位朋友。。。
我记得是上年。。当时我已经来欧洲一阵子了。。。
突然收到好姐妹的消息。。。说姐妹Ａ要结婚！
老实说真得很惊讶，很突然！
结婚？！跟谁？！新郎姐妹们认识的吗？　
姐妹Ａ的感情生活真的有点复杂。连我们这些姐妹有时候也搞不清楚她什么时候跟谁在一起。不过也很难说她，因为她不是那种不懂得自己在做什么的人。她玩的游戏。。。她很清楚自己在干什么。。。这是我常跟其他姐妹们说的。。。Ａ是我们之中思想最成熟的。。。不过我就常常想，是不是因为她早成熟就容易在这方面犯错呢？或者我这样说冤枉了她。。（对不起）不过我们所想的，所说的一句，也是想她好。
虽然大家不赞同她的做法，甚至不能接受她的做法，不过还是希望她不会受伤害。
不过事情发生了，要闪电结婚。。姐妹们也什么都没问，什么都没说。。。
是对是错也照撑。。。做姐妹就是这样。。。精神上，行动上。。。百分百支持。。。
不过还记得那时说结婚。。。说到新郎我们也没几个看过的。。。这就够吓人了
结婚是人生大事。。。连姐妹们也没见过那位新郎。。行吗？。。。我也是从之后拍下来的照片才看到谁是Ａ的老公。。。
不过Ａ说是个很照顾她，很疼她的人。。。我能想象是那种他爱Ａ比Ａ爱他多的人。。。
然后姐妹们说在婚礼上，看到新郎对新娘的承诺，大家都好感动。。。一位姐妹也流泪了
我听了也觉得好安慰。。。
幸好Ａ的家庭很富有，而新郎也是个专业人士
不用担心有了ＢＢ之后的担忧
ＢＢ出世不久也听说连一个奶樽都买了六，七十块（以马币来算是很贵的）。。这个也成了一下子的话题；Ｐ．．．不过无论如何。。这个小生命不只是他妈妈的宝贝，也会是姐妹们的宝贝．．．
就这样，Ａ从此之后的生活再也不一样了。。。不会像我们这班‘傻婆‘的想做什么就做什么了。。。
不过我真心地祝福Ａ永远幸福。。。
自己在朋友们的ｆａｃｅｂｏｏｋ看了ＢＢ的照片，好可爱！！！！嘻嘻，其实也真的想拿一张放上自己的ｂｌｏｇ。。不过想了想。。。好像不是很好。。。
哈哈，不过我怕我回去了，看到ＢＢ时候会忍不住的问她妈妈能不能把我们小偶像的相片放上来．．；ＰＰ

Food...XDDD

hehehe...I am almost feeling obliged to post pics of all my meals onto my blog..dunno why...probably got crazy over this habit...XDD..yeah, no doubt..the crazy food science student;P

...so here are my lunch today...porridge and the chicken dish that goes with it(with carrots, bamboo shoots, onions, champignons/fresh button mushroom, added a bit of vinegar to give it the ooommpphh;PP)

Heath Ledger~

It's Friday today and yeah, sis told me the other day..Heath Ledger's dead - he died on Tuesday?!...hmm, well, he's no more than a no one to me, no exact sadness...but hmm...only thing is again the feeling of how fragile life is...i mean that guy is only 28!! dont talk about an actor watever but anyone 28 has a whole lot of good future in front of him or her?!

...cherish life...

Old clip (not so old really..i mean two years back;P)

Found this old clip when searching for another MV of Kei Zai~~
..he became a tear-man but it was as if I could feel all that he said~~
(I didn't get to watch 903 award of that particular year...)
aiks...didnt wanna upload (takes ages) and didn't manage to find the youtube direct link thingy...(if anyone could tell me how it would be good, thanks loads first;-)
so anyone interested please click on my other blog? thanks
http://keekee2302.mysinablog.com

and hehehe...made a few posts today coz tomorrow and this weekend I'll be gearing up for my thesis presentation on monday...so will be focusing as much as possible on that...hahaha...can't wait for monday!!

Fish Leong~分手快乐MV

Just like this MV so much...check out my fren's post again...

http://oolongteachow.mysinablog.com/index.php?op=ViewArticle&articleId=975423

MUST WATCH~Funniest way of playing Mahjong..!!!XD

wahahaha...check out my friend's blog...(must watch till the end!!)
http://oolongteachow.mysinablog.com/index.php?op=ViewArticle&articleId=978926

Thanks so much Eunice, it was so funny!!

叱咤 903 Award Show~~~好感动！

Today~不理天塌下来的;P。。。就忍不住睇了过日好姐妹俾我的叱咤 903 颁奖典礼的link:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UW95QWx0gcw&feature=related
（15 parts~)
好好好中意!
未睇的一定要睇啊！
好好好多感情的show!
好好好多真心话！
好好好开心睇到好多歌手尤其：千桦~~Eason~~ 轩仔（仲有王碗之，哈哈）~~
当然仲有我至爱基仔，哈哈~
仲有好多好多个...and all the DJs too!!;P

总之好好睇！
好感动啊个show~~~！！

K歌之王~好想好想去唱K!

政府：欠债换钱，不然就不用再想出国！

刚刚回来上MSN表弟通知了我一件事
其实也不是什么新的事情了
不过还是很谢谢表弟的关心
虽然听了之后压力好大，好担心，好不开心
不过还是好感动，表弟看新闻也会想到我
就是关于教育局和移民聽合作
对付拿了政府贷款而还不还钱的人，把他们的护照收回，没得出国!!

说到这里也不用问都知道我一定是其中一位
其实政府这些年来一直都有这样的打算
只是到现在才实行
当然欠债换钱是天公地道的事情
不过我现在的状况真的不知道该先还政府，或者其他贷款
能顾到这个就顾不到另外一个...
还有有关政府部门之前不紧追那大家也就懒得去里
甚至如果你说借了政府的钱，好多人会说：..哦，那...不用急着还..我也有借到现在还没还那种话...
所以好多人毕业了,工作了好多年，还是没有还...
也有好多人根本没有打算还...
甚至记得在电台听过一位女士好心自己急着要还钱
自己去追有关部门
政府公务人员出名工作态度差
拖了又拖才查出原来那位女士的record已经不见了！
多神奇啊!竟然可以没了record！（电脑的record也可以不见的！）
那位女士好像说当时那位officer也懒得查下去
就这样就当她不用还了!!
（我听到当时多希望他们把我的record也弄不见了就好，少一笔要还！）
现在政府不能再忍了（应该是没钱了）
终于对付我们这些人了...@_@
我从开始工作都是把所有的月薪给爸爸，让他去处理
（因为他搞得太复杂了，我没办法处理）
也不用说，连还银行和其他机构的贷款都不够钱来还
政府的他就一直摆在一边了
爸爸每次拿我的名字去借钱都会说一定能还的，他会处理不用我担心
所以我也很信他，让他去处理
而且我自己一直以来都不喜欢处理钱的事情
不过可能就是因为这样，所以现在搞到自己这样的地步
我记得是18岁开始，爸爸就开始用我的名字去借第一笔贷款（就是政府这个）
...然后也不用说了，什么能借的都借。。各种各样贷款，银行，使人机构，一些我们华人会馆，福建会馆的。。
然后到了我bachelor毕业开始工作了就什么信用卡也申请了。。
我不会拒绝..我跟我爸爸说不了‘不’...
现在政府实行这样的行动
我都不知道该怎么办...
还到政府就还不到其他-银行/信用卡什么什么的
叫我怎么死？
爸爸也就做他最拿手的：拖..什么能拖的就拖，不能拖的也拖..向银行等等求情..等我毕业回去就会还..
那我回去时就肯定会被那些追债的追死!!
不过我想我现在存到的钱，也许能拿来先还些给政府
最少不会把我的护照给收回了
要不然我怕连想去新加坡工作也不用再想了
如果我只能待在马来西亚工作的话就今生今世也不用想还清那些债!!

Fight! Fight! Fight!

I am so damn stress!!!...yesterday got an email which stressed me so much..
...and to my unknown amount of debts...another RM50,000 is added to it...I didn't expect this amount, I would expect only half of it, RM25,000 at most...you may be so surprised and probably wondering: What?! you don't know how much money you borrowed?!...yes indeed I have no clear idea..my father handles things...and I wonder how much more debts which I don't know of, under my name...I can officially raise the estimated amount to RM300,000 maybe...I can prepare to jump off any building it seems...I have no idea how I would manage...I really don't know...I need a super paying job!!!!
...and mum urged me to go into serious job-hunting...because these debts will chase me like hell once I got home...my father is not handling them much as he promised everytime he try to get me to sign those loan applications..now he just ignore them because he doesn't have enough money to manage...and they are all debts under my name...you may think I am such a stupid idiot to let anyone use my name to borrow money...which I would admit, yes I am...but that's my father, I didn't know how to say 'no' to anyone, let alone my father!!...people say a pisces never say 'no' and so this is the consequence I guess...
...but I suddenly feel this urge to fight on (with job search)!! I dont know why but at least it's giving me some strength...from what I really have no idea...but it's good I guess...you have no idea how much I feel like dying yesterday (which is the case everytime I get any 'shock' about money issues) ...luckily there's something that always pull me through...thank god...

:PPP

pics of my lunch again...wahahah, bear with me:P (shucks, seems like this's turning into a food blog already:P)

The first one is mixed vegetables (broccoli, paprika/capsicum, carrot, baby corn, big onions)
and the second one, fish filet in white sauce...yummy~haha;P