Happy 牛 Year~

ahahhaha...今年过年过得好开心

应该因为是我已经3年没在家乡（婆婆家）过年的关系吧

所以今年感觉特别好

虽然是决了大舅父一家人

其他的事情还是特别好玩 超happy!!

在这里分享一个我拍的短片（边拍边捞 不好意思拍得不好;P)

这个是大马华人新年一定要做的

捞生~~（捞鱼生-用筷子夹得越高越好;PP)

祝表妹快点康复!

saw cousin sister today...
cousin sis had her operation on Friday night, successfully removing the huge tumour with one section of her colon
she had tubes over her nose, hands and body...
but when mum saw her yesterday and said that she appeared fine and was able to speak and aunt was more cheerful too
but today, cousin sis is not a very good condition when father and i went over
she's having the side effect due to painkiller overdosage (using a dispenser machine which she could manually control through her fingers, to lessen the burden to her intestines - therefore no using of tablets or pills)...
she felt like vomitting but couldn't...and she had some fluids in her lungs...
and becoz of this she couldnt take the other tablets she's supposed to take
luckily it's alright to take that later
but it was slighly heartbreaking seeing cousin sis getting thinner and thinner...she was once our 可爱小肥妹
and this is yet the start of the chemotherapy
seeing her painful expression...i really duno what to say...
i think when i saw my grandfather more than two years ago...leaving due to lung cancer...the impact was less as we know he's old...
seeing this happening to a once a bubbly girl is heart breaking

whatever it is...this is just the start of the recovery period for cousin sis...colon cancer has better standing compared to other types of cancer...plus the doc said it didnt spread to other organs...so that's a good news for now...

表妹~加油!
快点好起来!
我记得你上几个月还跟我说你想继续读书
还有还多事情要做呢
一定要好起来！！

Dealing with relative with Cancer

I will be probably be blogging less from now...
this week has been very down..
..cousin sister (she's only 21) has been diagnosed with colon cancer...
...just confirmed today it is already third stage...
...but I still believe that nothing is impossible...
my family will be the one giving her full support, and I'm telling myself that I will also support cousin sis till she heals if possible..and if not..till the very end...
for this, I will be probably reduce my time on internet...considering my work load as well...
if anyone has any suggestion, please let me know...
have in mind...using chinese medicine / herbs as these have been in the story quite often...that the patients life span is prolonged or even healed
thanks to all my friends who's been supporting this boring blog of mine

but apart from that, also tellingmyself to exercise more
havent been doing that much after I came back from Europe

and yet knowing that exercise if one of the keys to reduce risk of cancer

*************
will go to aunty's house after dinner...our first meeting after knowing this incident...I don't know what to say or how to comfort her (or maybe any comforting words be in worthless)..but I guess whatever it is, we just want to let them know that...we are there for them...and we will be there whenever they need us...may God bless them....

我家里最小 最野蛮的 小‘妹妹’

呵呵~
这‘位’就是我家最小 最野蛮 的‘细妹’了;PPP
我们吃什么都一定要有Mango的份
平时我在别的地方工作
周末有时会回家
Mango知道我和爸爸回来
我们还在门外站着
铊都已经在屋里面开心到发疯了;P

...=.="

...昨晚听到爸爸讲电话好像说到他的心脏状况不好...
（福建话我只能听明一些)
心烦...好怕...好怕
很希望没事 因为爸一把年纪了

我给妈妈的‘礼物’

今天相信好多人都在陪父母，陪妈妈
而我呢
就在公司工作
（‘辛好’是和另外一位同事一起工作
不过她的孩子们就可怜了　他们在家里等妈妈回去）
我们做到不知时候
我手机又放了silent mode

然后到快要晚上７点时
爸爸 (he's actually not home, outstation) 打电话来公司
‘骂’我害我妈妈担心
然后我才记得去check我的手机
19个missed call! @-@
我立刻打回家想告诉妈妈
我就要准备回家了
不过她一接电话就是：‘唔该你以后～～～～！！’

然后我就跟同事说
这份就是我给妈妈最大的‘礼物’

七星子/女是有点迟钝的;PPP

以前的人说
七个月出世的孩子会特别聪明
小时候还以为是真的 (不要脸;PPP）
然后在2006年年底
在爱尔兰上nutrition module时候 才知道原来是相反的呢！！
因为呢 。。。
BB在妈妈的肚子里 是在最后的两个月才吸收铁质的
七个月出世的BB就是miss了这个很重要的阶段
铁质对red blood cells development和脑袋的成长很重要的

而且这样的iron deficiency
是以后都捕不回来的
吃再多的铁质丰富的食物也只能瞒住到身体一时的需要

这样缺铁质的孩子 ／成人
据说除了会有贫血症
大可能会有学习困难 & difficulty in focusing (paying attention)
也会比较迟钝(反应）
我就不知道是不是心理作用
不过那时就好像真的觉得好难集中精神（读书和做assignment时候;PP)
不过可能也是因为老了 已经不像在中学时候了;PP
不过说到反应迟钝
就真的是我的trademark了;PPP
所以当妈妈说我反应太迟钝了（常常都这样说我=.=)
我也只能回答她
你太早把我生出来了啦！;PPP
(爸爸就常说：是我自己忍不住要出来看世界了)

迟钝的七星女提早祝全天下父母双亲节快乐～；Ｐ

Sis left for Scotland

As I was still in deep sleep this morning, sis left (very early) for Scotland (company training for 2 months-lucky gal :P)
and yesterday when she came back from work, she laid out some of the food items she'll be bringing over...;PP
my sis could never live without chinese food...she listens to western music, watches western films and tv shows, reads english paper, mag etc (she can't read chinese)...but sorry, not too much western food;PPPP
In contrast when I go overseas I could leave without a single packet of food related item;PPP ...I am very chinesey in all aspects compared to my sis...but food-wise I am not too picky...though I love Oriental food like mad;P but I dont die without them (I just crave like crazy;P)...my sis will...;PP
These are among some of the seasonings she brought...she also brought some chili sauces (two / three types), instant noodles (three types, bulk packs)...this and that (to think that she's only going for 2 months...hehehehe;PPP)
I guess the next time when she will be leaving for 2 years, she could be bringing a luggage full of nothing but food stuffs...

好开心XDDDDDD

昨天本来因为工作有点郁闷
不过然后。。。
晚上。。。来了一个好消息!
在我刚刚躺上床要睡觉的时候
(我习惯不关房间门的)
听到妹妹用好普通的语气说了一句:
‘我拿到了’
我就好奇她到底说什么，跟谁说话?
就起来了走到她房间。。。
原来是妹妹(check email) 拿到了欧盟的奖学金(就是我之前拿那个)
当时我比谁都兴奋
就大声的叫:拿到了!拿到了!；PPPP
把爸爸妈妈也吵醒了；PPPPP
haha...当时我真的好兴奋好开心~~~
好像比妹妹还有兴奋；PPP
不过今天早上醒来
就想到还有不到半年妹妹就要走了
而我又刚回来就开工了
没什么时间相处
就有点伤心的感觉

分享一个很有意思的广告片断 (Sharing a meaningful TV commercial clip)

这是朋友和我分享的
很有意思所以也放在这里和大家分享
Thanks Peek Yin for this meaningful clip ;-)
这两天好像一直收到一些叫我‘回家’的信息
(因为都在听基仔的‘爱回家’, 然后又收到朋友email的这个clip;P)

和妹妹的心灵感应 (2)

那天知道妹妹进医院后
我也跟她说关于我梦到她出事
她也跟妈妈说
妈妈就觉得好不可思议！！
竟然有这样的事？！
而且我们还隔了怎么远
妈妈也问我是几时梦到的
自己不记得很清楚了
不过算了下大概也就是妹妹做手术的那天
自己听了也觉得很不可思议！
难道真得有这回事的吗？
有时间真得要查下网上的质料@_@

妹妹和我们狗狗-mango

Annual Body Check Up...

sis had laparoscopy done to clear the water in her abdomen due to a bursted water cyst near one of her ovaries...
...very scary...but if the water cyst had not bursted...she wouldn't know she was having one...
because apparently cysts are very common even in young ladies nowadays...
in fact sis had a checkup doen not too far back in time
but it didn't manage to reveal the water cyst though
...but still annual body check up is really very very important...
...i actually have not done a really thorough one before but i'll get one done soon hopefully when i get home...
so please, even if you dont care for yourself, care for your loved ones and do your annual body check up...!

和妹妹的心灵感应？！

不知道用词对不对？不过我是想说和妹妹好像有'telepathy'!!
几天没有在MSN看到妹妹了
对上那次是new year's day - Jan 1st
然后很巧合的，我前两三天发了个梦
现在已经不记得细节了
只记得是关于妹妹出事的
当时吓死我了
早上6点哭醒来了，立刻上网看看妹妹在不在
失望地没看到她，不过就留了offline message给她
自己很担心不过也因为好害怕所以不敢打电话回家
直到今天一回来打开电脑看见她的message才知道她2号进了医院
我差点又大哭了
不过知道她现在没什么大外我都安心点

可能有人会说我很笨为什么不打电话回家，只懂得害怕那么没用
其实是因为有了一次的经验
那时（都5/6年前了）我在澳洲读书
我差不多隔天都要听到家人的声音才安心的（受不了我吧？)
然后有一次
家里整个礼拜没有电话来。。。
之后一来电话，妈妈第一句就问我有没有觉得很奇怪为什么他们都没打给我？
然后就告诉我原来是爸爸进了医院。。（那次是他第一次心藏病暴发）
我一听到就哭得好像世界末日了
哭了一整天搞到另一天眼睛肿得没人有;P

所以因为这样，如果没了家里的消息自己一定会胡思乱想
不过还好这次离开家的一年半，是非常的独立（意思是不用天天跟家人聊天了，哈哈）
跟上次是没得比的。。;P

不过也证明了和家人依然是很close的
(虽然我家是很古老的，不会很open的表达爱和关心)

今天和妹妹在MSN chat
聊了一下而已不过是聊得很温馨的（哈哈，一般都不会这样的）

Lonely Christmas...and missing coming Chinese New Year

hehe..其实都唔孤单０既。。。
不过真的。。每当节日，真係会特别挂住屋企人同埋d fren...
不过圣诞节仲ok，因为自己唔係christian。。同埋屋企人一向都冇点庆祝
反而会趁着有假日会同d fren聚下。。呵呵，所以今日特别挂住班傻婆；ＰＰ

如果未适应一个人离开屋企的朋友
相信最惨就係过节日果阵
而０甘多节日，对我黎讲就更係华人过新年最重要啦。。
因为我婆婆係好传统的
过年一定係好有华人过年feel的
我有好多朋友因为屋企受西方人影响
过年未必会过得好似我家０甘
婆婆係样样都一定要做到足的。。。大掃除。。吃团年饭　（煮团年饭都要大半日！），接财神。。去神庙，同埋好多好多的细节
记得以前我表弟妹们仲细的时候（我小学中学果阵）
我就係婆婆的好帮手
（呵呵，不过有时候会做得好唔甘愿，因为电视时时刻刻都好多野睇，而我就因为要帮婆婆会miss０左ｄshow；Ｐ．．婆婆就成日话：ｄ节目真係０甘好睇咩？有乜好睇？唔好睇啦。。）然后我就会同自己或者妈妈斗气（因为不敢同婆婆斗；ＰＰ）。。諗番都好笑；ＰＰＰ
几年前细舅父请０左印尼庸人俾婆婆。。所以我同埋ｄ阿姨，舅母。。就可以睇电视，黐住个电视。。哈哈。。

hmm．．．傻０左，竟然圣诞节时候讲过年ｄ野。。。九唔答八；ＰＰ

不过我明年过华人新年果阵就已经起程０左啦。。会同sze ling 傻婆一齐会巴黎，然后罗马．．．翻到屋企果阵，年都过晒啦。。。

表弟要结婚了！去台湾提亲！

舅母同舅父本来依个星期要去台湾提亲的
呵呵，我表弟（同我同年不过细几个月）要结婚了（另一角度我０米好失败？；Ｐ）
要留係台湾发展
因为佢係读电视／电影制作的
回去马来西亚冇乜前途
何况佢依几年係台湾一切都好好
另外舅母仲话表妹要从空中小姐变飞机师。。。
要读飞机师课程，考试做机师！
哇～～～如果係就好啦。。。
（果阵０米好似冲上云霄里面叶璇０既角色Zeta０甘？；Ｐ）

舅母仲问我几时番到家，等埋我一齐去！
佢买埋我的机票喔。。。真好！
諗到都开心！嘻嘻，希望佢唔会放我飞机啦！
好期待去台湾玩啊！